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SILAT
Established 2005
TANDEZ ACADEMY
OF MARTIAL ARTS
Exploring the World of Martial Arts: Techniques, Benefits, and Training Tips


Public Doesn’t Mean Safe: The Myth That Gets People Hurt
Most people believe a dangerous lie: “If something happens, it won’t happen in public.” Crowds feel safe. Lights feel safe. Cameras feel safe. Being “around people” feels safe. And yet, again and again, violence unfolds in plain sight—on sidewalks, in parking lots, on campuses, outside stores, at transit stops—while others look away, freeze, or assume someone else will help. Public does not mean protected. Public does not mean prepared. Public does not mean safe. Understandi
SiFu Adrian Tandez
15 hours ago4 min read


When Anger Turns Dangerous: What to Do When a Man Is Yelling, Threatening, and Closing In
It starts with words. Loud words. Angry words. A raised voice in a parking lot. A man yelling in public. A confrontation that suddenly feels like it’s slipping out of control. Most people don’t realize this, but many violent encounters don’t begin with a punch. They begin with intimidation. And intimidation is not harmless. If you’ve ever felt your stomach drop when someone started yelling at you—if you’ve ever wondered “Is this about to turn physical?” —this blog is for you.
SiFu Adrian Tandez
Dec 24, 20254 min read


Inside the Mind of an Attacker: What Predators Look For — And How to Make Sure You’re NOT a Target
Most people walk through the world hoping nothing bad happens to them. Predators walk through the world searching for the people who hope nothing bad happens to them. Violence is not random. Assaults are not unpredictable. Attackers do not choose victims by accident. They choose targets deliberately, intelligently, and efficiently — the same way a hunter tracks prey. And once you understand how predators think, move, and select victims, you can do the single most powerful th
SiFu Adrian Tandez
Dec 14, 20255 min read


Why “Don’t Fight Back” Is Dangerous Advice — And What Women Really Need to Know
For decades, women have been told the same phrase: “Don’t fight back.” “Don’t escalate.” “Just comply.” It’s soft. It’s comforting. It sounds protective. But it’s also one of the most dangerous pieces of advice a woman can ever receive. Because the truth is brutally simple: Compliance does not guarantee safety. Turning yourself into a passive target does not reduce harm. And waiting for mercy from someone who has none is not a plan — it’s a gamble. Most women aren’t told the
SiFu Adrian Tandez
Dec 2, 20255 min read
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