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SILAT
Established 2005
TANDEZ ACADEMY
OF MARTIAL ARTS
Exploring the World of Martial Arts: Techniques, Benefits, and Training Tips


Bullies Don’t Grow Up — They Get Promoted
How Kali and Jeet Kune Do Prepare Men for Workplace Power Dynamics Workplace Bullying Is Real — It Just Wears a Suit. Most men assume bullying ends in high school. It doesn’t. It evolves. The shove in the hallway becomes public criticism in meetings. The locker-room humiliation becomes quiet reputation damage. The schoolyard exclusion becomes strategic isolation from opportunity. The tactics mature. The psychology remains. And this is where serious martial training becomes mo
SiFu Adrian Tandez
6 days ago3 min read


Why Kali Escrima is the World’s Most Dangerous Art for Bladed Combat
Knives end fights faster than fists ever will. They erase distance. They punish hesitation. They turn small mistakes into permanent consequences. Most martial arts are not built for that reality. Kali is. Kali—also known as Eskrima or Arnis—is widely regarded by professionals as the most specialized and complete martial art when it comes to knives and bladed weapons. This reputation was not earned through tournaments or demonstrations. It was forged through necessity, surviva
SiFu Adrian Tandez
Feb 74 min read


Kinamutay: The Filipino Art You Were Never Meant to Learn
There are martial arts that make you better at fighting. And then there are methods that exist only for moments when fighting has already failed. Kinamutay belongs to the second category. It is not a style you collect. It is not something you “try out.” And it is not taught openly for a reason. Kinamutay is a specialized sub-system of Filipino martial arts, preserved inside the Empty Hands curriculum of the Inosanto Kali system, designed for close-quarter survival when escap
SiFu Adrian Tandez
Jan 303 min read


Why Jeet Kune Do Is the Most Honest Fighting System Ever Created
Most martial arts are built on tradition. Jeet Kune Do is built on truth. Not cultural truth. Not historical truth. Fighting truth. That alone puts Jeet Kune Do in a different category from almost everything else being taught today. Jeet Kune Do does not promise belts. It does not promise rank. It does not promise comfort. It promises one thing only: Effectiveness when things turn real. And that is why, decades after its creation, JKD remains the most honest fighting system e
SiFu Adrian Tandez
Jan 214 min read


Public Doesn’t Mean Safe: The Myth That Gets People Hurt
Most people believe a dangerous lie: “If something happens, it won’t happen in public.” Crowds feel safe. Lights feel safe. Cameras feel safe. Being “around people” feels safe. And yet, again and again, violence unfolds in plain sight—on sidewalks, in parking lots, on campuses, outside stores, at transit stops—while others look away, freeze, or assume someone else will help. Public does not mean protected. Public does not mean prepared. Public does not mean safe. Understandi
SiFu Adrian Tandez
Jan 54 min read


When Anger Turns Dangerous: What to Do When a Man Is Yelling, Threatening, and Closing In
It starts with words. Loud words. Angry words. A raised voice in a parking lot. A man yelling in public. A confrontation that suddenly feels like it’s slipping out of control. Most people don’t realize this, but many violent encounters don’t begin with a punch. They begin with intimidation. And intimidation is not harmless. If you’ve ever felt your stomach drop when someone started yelling at you—if you’ve ever wondered “Is this about to turn physical?” —this blog is for you.
SiFu Adrian Tandez
Dec 24, 20254 min read


Inside the Mind of an Attacker: What Predators Look For — And How to Make Sure You’re NOT a Target
Most people walk through the world hoping nothing bad happens to them. Predators walk through the world searching for the people who hope nothing bad happens to them. Violence is not random. Assaults are not unpredictable. Attackers do not choose victims by accident. They choose targets deliberately, intelligently, and efficiently — the same way a hunter tracks prey. And once you understand how predators think, move, and select victims, you can do the single most powerful th
SiFu Adrian Tandez
Dec 14, 20255 min read


Why “Don’t Fight Back” Is Dangerous Advice — And What Women Really Need to Know
For decades, women have been told the same phrase: “Don’t fight back.” “Don’t escalate.” “Just comply.” It’s soft. It’s comforting. It sounds protective. But it’s also one of the most dangerous pieces of advice a woman can ever receive. Because the truth is brutally simple: Compliance does not guarantee safety. Turning yourself into a passive target does not reduce harm. And waiting for mercy from someone who has none is not a plan — it’s a gamble. Most women aren’t told the
SiFu Adrian Tandez
Dec 2, 20255 min read


Why Most People Freeze During Violence — And How JKD & Kali Prevent It
You’re walking to your car at night. You’re unlocking your door. You sense something behind you — footsteps, a shadow, a shift in the air. Then it happens. A shout. A grab. A sudden movement. Your heart slams into your chest. Your mind goes blank. Your body freezes. This is the most common reaction during real violence — not punching, not running, not screaming. Freezing. People freeze in the exact moment they need to move most. And it happens to good, smart people who think
SiFu Adrian Tandez
Nov 22, 20255 min read


Why Traditional Self-Defense Classes Fail Women — and What JKD & Kali Do Differently
You paid for a self-defense seminar. You showed up in a gym full of fluorescent lights and optimism. You were handed a drill sheet, partnered up with a friendly volunteer, and walked through a few polite escapes — a wrist twist here, a step away there. The instructor smiled, people clapped, and you left feeling… empowered. Then you read the headline. You watch the video. Someone gets jumped. Someone gets hurt. Someone’s life changes in the space of one breath. That warm feeli
SiFu Adrian Tandez
Nov 7, 20258 min read


How Kali Escrima Makes You Dangerous — With or Without a Weapon
Most people believe weapons make you dangerous. They’re wrong. It’s knowledge that makes you dangerous — and the weapon just becomes an extension of that knowledge. That’s the truth behind Kali Escrima , the Filipino martial art that transforms ordinary people into calm, efficient fighters capable of handling anything — armed or unarmed. The Myth of the Weapon When most people think of “self-defense,” they imagine fists, kicks, or maybe a pepper-spray canister in their pocke
SiFu Adrian Tandez
Nov 1, 20255 min read


Why Every Adult Should Learn to Fight — Before They Need To
You don’t expect it to happen. You’re walking to your car at night. You’re out with family. You’re in a parking lot, a grocery store, or a train station. Then someone steps into your space. A shout, a shove, a flash of movement — and suddenly your heartbeat spikes. It’s not a movie. It’s not a drill. It’s real . In that split second, one question defines everything: “Do I know what to do?” For most people, the answer is no. That’s why every adult — no matter their age, job, o
SiFu Adrian Tandez
Oct 18, 20255 min read


Why Fitness Kickboxing is a Lie — and What Real Muay Thai Training Feels Like
The music is blasting. The lights are low. A group of people are throwing punches into the air, in sync with the beat. The instructor...
SiFu Adrian Tandez
Oct 1, 20255 min read


Knife Attacks Are Real. Why Your Self-Defense Class Isn’t Preparing You for the Truth
On August 22, 2025, a 23-year-old Ukrainian refugee named Iryna Zarutska boarded a light rail train in Charlotte, North Carolina, on her...
SiFu Adrian Tandez
Sep 18, 20255 min read


The Truth About JKD vs. Krav Maga — What No One Tells You
Two warriors walk into the arena. In o ne corner: Krav Maga , the slickly marketed “ultimate self-defense system,” wrapped in military...
SiFu Adrian Tandez
Sep 7, 20259 min read


Why Real Self-Defense Is About Awareness, Not Just Fighting
When people think about self-defense, they often picture fists flying, kicks landing, or dramatic movie-style battles. But here’s the...
SiFu Adrian Tandez
Sep 2, 20254 min read


Why True Martial Artists Aren't Bullies: The Misconception About Fighters
The Misconception: “Fighters Are Dangerous People” Over the years, as a professional martial arts instructor, I’ve lost count of how many...
SiFu Adrian Tandez
Aug 19, 20255 min read


Why Kali Eskrima is Absolutely The Best Fighting Art for Realistic Self-Defense and Survival
In the realm of martial arts, many systems claim to offer self-defense techniques capable of handling real-world threats. However, when...
SiFu Adrian Tandez
Jul 25, 20258 min read


Why Every Woman Should Learn Kali Escrima: The Weapons-Based Martial Art That Levels the Playing Field
In a world where personal safety is not a guarantee, women are often at a physical disadvantage in violent confrontations due to...
SiFu Adrian Tandez
Jun 19, 20255 min read


The Top 10 Most Common Mistakes Women Make About Self-Defense — And Why Jeet Kune Do and Kali Are the Perfect Solutions
Self-defense is more than just physical combat; it’s a mindset, a strategy, and a way of living with awareness and confidence....
SiFu Adrian Tandez
Jun 1, 20255 min read
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